1. How does RightMate4U™ work?
RightMate4U™ is a cause and effect system. Cause and effect systems produce dependable results based on two key criteria:
- The ability to know EXACTLY what you want
- The ability, skills and opportunity to say NO to what you don't want so that ultimately you get to say YES to what you do want. Many people make the mistake of focusing solely on the 'effect'. Where am I going to find him or her or, I want to get married. They don't focus on the smart actions that will lead naturally to attracting a committed romantic partnership. If you focus on powerful causal actions it is almost impossible not to find the love of your life.
RightMate4U™ works like the second example although mates can show up very quickly, often reflecting a student's readiness for a mate relationship. Our program focuses on smart attitudes and actions and that's why the relationships that people find and choose after taking this class tend to be markedly more satisfying than what they've experienced in the past. That's why our graduates of the past 16 years enjoy a one percent divorce rate vs. our national U.S. average of fifty percent. More importantly, these relationships last because your reasons for choosing that man or woman are based on a solid foundation of smart decision making coupled with a healthy dose of self-care and self-love. By the time you complete the course, you know precisely what the relationship of your dreams looks like and how to recognize and attract the person who is the right romantic partner for you.
2. What is RightMate4U™'s success rate?
We have conducted two studies via graduate surveys (students who completed the course from 1993 through 2007.)
On average, half of the participants find their mates within one year of completing the course with another thirty percent having found their mate within two or more years of course completion. Keep in mind that some people find their mates even before the course is complete while others aren't ready to settle down for one reason or another for several years after finishing the class.
We know of three divorces in total which estimates the RightMate4U™ divorce rate at less than one percent compared to the national U.S. average of fifty percent or more. Also, all of the reported divorces can be traced back to one or more missing components in the application of the RightMate4U™ system.
On another note: approximately twenty eight percent of our students engage in relationships with married people. Over ninety five percent of these relationships end during the course or within weeks of the student completing RightMate4U™ simply as a byproduct of learning the system.
For students involved with single partners but unsure of the long term viability of those relationships, the RightMate4U™ course clears up any questions so they know exactly how to proceed in those relationships.
3. Do you have to be ready for a mate relationship to take the RightMate4U™ Course?
Absolutely not. My dear Grandma Rosie would say, "You dig the well before you're dying of thirst." Knowing what you want and how to assess potential partners accurately means that you can take your time preparing yourself for your mate relationship while enjoying your life. Do not be surprised however if you do feel ready and inspired to meet potential partners and ultimately receive your mate relationship after completing RightMate4U™. Once you know what you want, it's easy to imagine yourself being happy to have it.
4. What if I don't believe it'll work for me?
You don't have to believe that this program will work for you. The majority of students taking this class express that while they can see RightMate4U™ working for others, for whatever reason they don't believe it will work for them. That simply does not matter when you're applying cause and effect. You don't have to believe that increasing your exercise and making healthier food choices will lead to a fat loss if you're overweight. But regardless of how you feel or what you believe, it will.
By committing to the RightMate4U™ system (and assuming you decide you truly want a mate in your life) over time it is virtually impossible for you not to eventually find the mate of your dreams. Whether or not you believe you will.
5. How is RightMate4U™ different from online or offline dating services, matchmakers or social networking groups?
Online or offline introductory services serve one purpose and that is to provide potential partners for you to assess. They typically look at surface compatibilities between people. There is no behavioral selection guide being utilized by these services or being taught to their subscribers.
RightMate4U™, on the other hand is a bona-fide behavioral mate selection system. It does not matter to us where your mate comes from, he can come from anywhere at anytime. Why limit yourself to 'findmeahusband.com' or 'findmeawife.com' or wherever you happen to have paid a fee? By learning our system the whole world becomes your dating service. What we are interested in, our primary commitment, is that you choose the right mate for you.
We generally recommend that students suspend these services until after they have completed our course so their selection system is in place BEFORE they date.
6. What if I don't know what the relationship of my dreams looks like?
That is what your course is about. In actuality you absolutely do know what the relationship of your dreams looks like. If you didn't, who would? However, that vision is typically clouded over and influenced by layers and layers of negative or even irrelevant input from the past. The good news is that we know the questions to ask to quickly get at that answer regardless of your past history of romantic relationships.
7. What tangible results can I expect from the RightMate4U™ course?
There are two key deliverables from this course plus major attitude adjustments that will forever change your relationship to finding love. The two key deliverables are as follows:
- Your MateVision™, a crystal clear, tailored for you statement of who your mate is behaviorally. These are the behaviors that make it easy and natural for you to hold him or her in the highest esteem today, tomorrow and for the rest of your lives together. Your MateVision™ also serves as a powerful tool and template for finding and attracting high quality mate candidates.
- Your MateVision™ Scorecard, a state of the art behavioral assessment tool that gives you access to becoming a master at identifying a potential mate's true personality. It is designed to build your ability to quickly distinguish between the ones who are not your mate from the one who is. Your MateVision™ Scorecard is a tremendous time saver, makes finding love an enjoyable and adventurous activity and allows you to be solid and confident regarding your romantic choices.
8. Can you guarantee that I will find my mate after taking this course?
It is critical that every student understands that their experience and post-graduate results are entirely unique to them. The results from our program cover a wide spectrum of positive shifts which can undeniably lead to a happily ever after marriage.
We do not know when your mate will arrive or where he or she will come from. We do know that the graduates who are most successful with our program, get to enjoy their freedom as single people and tell us that those questions no longer occupy their thoughts or even apply.
9. Does RightMate4U™ only apply to heterosexual relationships?
Absolutely not. Plans are underway to begin teaching in the LGBT Community. Please contact us if you are in the Chicago area and would be interested in attending.
10. What are the system requirements for attending a Webinar?
Basically all you need is a computer and a telephone. After you register you will be given all the technical guidance you need even if you've never taken an online course before. Make sure that you read further for specific technical requirements.
To attend a Webinar on a PC, the following is required:
- Internet Explorer® 6.0 or newer, Mozilla® Firefox® 2.0 or newer (JavaScript™ and Java™ enabled)
- Windows® 2000, XP, 2003 Server or Vista
- Cable modem, DSL or better Internet connection
- Minimum of Pentium® class 1GHz CPU with 512 MB of RAM (Recommended) (2 GB of RAM for Windows® Vista) Participants wishing to connect to audio using *VoIP (Voice Over Internet Protocol) will need a fast Internet connection, a microphone and speakers (a USB headset is recommended).
11. Can Mac users join a Webinar?
Yes, Mac® computer users can attend Webinars. System requirements:
- Mac OS X 10.4 (Tiger®) or newer
- Safari® 3.0 or newer, Firefox® 2.0 or newer (JavaScript™ and Java™ enabled)
- Cable modem, DSL or better Internet connection
- Power PC G4/G5 or Intel processor (521 MB of RAM or better recommended)
12. What the heck is EFT?
Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) is a simple to self-apply and effective form of energy psychology. Energy psychology assumes the existence of a field of energy in the body called the meridian system which utilizes the same channels employed in traditional Chinese medicine and acupuncture. EFT teaches that a disruption in your energy field is the cause of all negative emotions but of far greater importance is that your energy or vibration is the personal message you send the outer world day in and day out on a conscious or subconscious level. Patterns, usually set-up in childhood, repeat themselves because they were effective in protecting us from pain and discomfort but as adults these patterns may no longer serve any positive purpose. By physically tapping on meridian end points on the face and upper body, one can cause real permanent changes in behavior, arresting self sabotaging and leading one to alter what they can manifest in their lives.
EFT has been featured on Oprah, CNN, the Discovery Channel, and Women's Weekly magazine and is used throughout the world in settings as varied as hospitals, schools and prisons. The free manual available at www.emofree.com is downloaded by 10,000 users each month in fourteen different languages.
13. How does EFT work in conjunction with the RightMate4U™ system?
Are you ever drawn to the same type of men or women? Is it possible that your love interests remind you of one of your parents? Does drama play a large or small role in your life? Do you have beliefs that prevent you from feeling you deserve the best mate possible? Through numerous case studies, EFT has been shown to heal the pain from years of rejection and other issues inherited from past relationships.
14. Juli, why are you incorporating EFT into the RightMate4U™ program?
I have noticed in the past fifteen years of teaching RightMate4U™ that people will follow the system, find magnificent romantic partners, yet appear to self sabotage their budding relationships. Fortunately, their mates stick with them through thick and thin (one of the hallmarks of a mate relationship). Nevertheless, they made bonding much harder. After using EFT myself for two years, I knew that I had finally found a remarkably simple and effective tool to help students release these negative behavior patterns from their past and joyfully receive love in the present. Thus, EFT can help women both in finding love as well as in keeping love alive.
15. Who is Alina Frank? Alina Frank Certified EFT practitioner rated the top practitioner according to Tapping International and has been in private practice since 2000. www.TapYourPower.net Alina has seen over 2000 clients worldwide through in person, webcam, and telephone sessions. Her articles have been published in NorthStar Family Matters, international publications, and on the official EFT website www.emofree.com where she also serves as a moderator for the Women's Issues Forum. Along with her husband Dr. Craig Weiner, DC, she has trained both traditional and alternative healing arts practitioners how to successfully integrated EFT into their practices. With a commitment to assist returning Iraq War veterans suffering from PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder), Alina created a support group and website under the auspices of US Vet Space and is now actively recruiting veterans for a research project that is proving the efficacy of EFT.
16. Why did you choose Alina Frank as your co-teacher?
As a teacher of transformation I am a perpetual student seeking to live as joyfully as possible. I was made aware of EFT in 2006 and after some initial success applying it on my own, I decided to tackle lingering painful memories that were thirty five years old. These issues had not been significantly helped through years of therapy and other transformational programs.
I set out to find the most highly qualified EFT expert possible and that search led me to Alina Frank. I found her compassionate, intuitive and understanding. Virtually every difficult issue has now been healed beyond recognition.
When Alina first suggested that we combine our expertise and co-teach this course I did not hesitate for one moment to move forward to develop our RightMate4U™ Women's Webinar program together. I am deeply honored to call her my partner in this program. I am also confident that those students who are open to this new approach will experience a quantum leap in being at peace before they even find their mates. And just as importantly, during the early relationship post-honeymoon phase when reality sets in and potentially self sabotaging behaviors can show up.
17. Do you plan on conducting a Webinar for Men?
We would very much like to have a Webinar for Men. Once we have heard from a sufficient number of men that are interested in having us develop one, we will do it. Please contact us if you would be interested in attending a Webinar for Men.
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